Of course I have straight girlfriends, but also many totally straight guys too. I have had more straight friends in life than gay. I have heard the stories from friends whose families basically disowned them for being who they are. I think that this is the single most important thing in a gay person's acceptance of themselves. I have been very lucky to have a family who loved and supported me and my lifestyle. I don't know if I consciously developed this as a defense mechanism, but I have lived my life being open with most people about my sexuality. I am one of the gay men that people cannot recognize by my mannerisms. By understanding and compassion, we could eliminate the presence of double standard in our society. If there is doubt, straight men should be lower their guards down and try to understand gay men's situation. Given if we were put in their circumstances, how would we react? Since we have never been in their shoes, we are in no position to make that prejudgment call. If god has wired him or her to be a painter, why would parents want to force him into becoming a pastor? We are not god, and we do not know their stories. Parents who happen to have a gay child should love the son or daughter the way they are. As long as the gay parent is capable to raise child with love and education, what is the morally wrong about that?Īpologies in advance if some of my points have offended some of my religious readers but gay people have never asked to be gay. Even if it does happen, the worst case scenario, we still have the medical technology that can compliments with sperm donor and adoptions. Will all the human beings in the world turned gay? This will never happens because the natural selection as stated by Charles Darwin’s grand idea of evolution. To argue these “deity” individual’s point of view, the obvious reason it is prohibited by most religion is because human kind would be extinct if the whole population turns gay. Some people might say, being gay is still wrong because it is frowned upon by most religion. Ricky Martin is a celebrity who openly admitted that he is gay. The only difference is their sexual orientation. They have personalities, skills and talents as well. That is very embarrassing if that is what you perceive. Getting an approach from a gay man does not mean he wants to sleep with you. What is wrong about a guy wanting to make a friendly chat with an acquaintance? This is what happening to a lot of gay men. How would you feel? Obviously the girl is acting like a total bitch. Don’t you think this perception is absurd? Imagine this, you are a straight guy and feels like talking to a girl sitting next to you in a class, she noticed your presence and straight away gave an irritated look thinking you want to get into her pants and rudely walks away. They feel uncomfortable and awkward towards gay man thinking the innocent queer is interested to sleep with them. I think this is happening because most straight men are scared to think they will be molested when they meet a gay man. It is sad to see some of the straight men out there are still addressing gay men as faggots.
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